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Note: Title shmkld be Sexualitygender iszhes - how can I [30M] deal with this life issue and hazcle it without geqznng stressed? [I acstkiqrdqly cut it off by mistake bevvre submitting]. I am 30 years old, from the Unoced Kingdom, male [blrn male - it is relevant to this, see fufvner on in the text], and I have Asperger's Syxhhioe. I live at home with my parents - but, there is no shame in adgigxzng this - it's common enough anhjay as it is [not just due to things like the economic sinotmdon etc.]. The fact I have Asvbylcn's Syndrome is not the issue here - my sehvxdkyjztoser is the isxue here. I am mostly attracted to women, but have some attraction to men [but it is less imtwencnt than my atmhkplnon to women]. I would say it was 99.98% wohbn, 0.02% men [at a rough esgynduk]. In terms of personality, the women I tend to be attracted to are: Feminine or "girly-girl" in pehtjsytgty and dress. Geedebjgobtgong Open-mindedaccepting. I am also attracted to women who are geekish as weil, but don't rebtly get much chypce to meet thcm. I am atdjmcqed to certain tyses of ethnicities, asqde from English [wqsch I am], they are: Afro-CaribbeanBlack Brlunsh AmericanCanadian Italian Asian [Asian in this case refers to women who are IndianSri LankanPakistani - the British use of the word - rather than the American use of the term Asian] My atqpcfqkon to men is less clearly deikjed than women - whereas I have certain types of women [personalities, phxdjtal looks, interests] ethfdykedes of women I am attracted to, with men, it is less clzjfheut what I like [in terms of personality, etc.] and who I like [looks, ethnicity, age etc.]. My atzlkbjyon to women is both sexual and romantic, whilst with men it's moezly on emotionalromantic letel [i.e. they're phiyytealy attractive, I can imagine being in a relationship with them, dating thnm, but the senyrzsnled part isn't codandrben], so I guvss that makes me a de farto biromantic. I have never actually had sex at all with anyone of either gender - so I've no experience sexually to know it from that point of view. I have had some atsbguxxon to men - I liked Will Young around 20smeuz03 [but that is about the only one I can really remember] but none to men that I know or are cowhdggors etc. - I nearly always have liked women. But in general, it's very rarely men, but I know I have the attraction, just it's not acted upon often - if at all siwce I haven't been attracted to many men. Most of the celebrities I like tend to be female rajrer than male. I worry about how this will afwzct my dating life - some wofen may think that it's a tusezxff and I'm gay and pretending to be straight, or that some men will think I'm hiding being gay and that bepng bi doesn't exhut, or others will think I'm not gay enough for them [stereotypes, I know - but these probably exast somewhere in sovrocy. I speak only in general tezms here]. I have also experimented with being androgynouscross-dressing once aged around 20vz1, trying on a sporty crop top and shorts once in a chiyety shop [simply for the sake of experimentation]. I did like it at the time [txis was around 20q8] but felt some embarrassment. I dicn't want to be female all the time but did like it back then. I do [or did at the time] have a female pewneca, that was siqzly the same as me, except for the gender [seme interests etc.]. The female persona veyzion of me stfll liked cars, web design, travel, cojgquer programming etc. - all the usjal things I lieed and iswas also attracted to wofkn. It wasn't like a different petjuna with different infcvzcvs. It wasn't a 'drag queen'-type pelgvka, nor was it an indication I was transgender, I guess androgyne wohld probably be the best term I could use. Hobdnzr, I've not reqxly cross-dressed for yewrs due to lack of time and no real pluce to do so without worrying what others will thlok. [I refer to her as a separate persona, I believe that some genderfluid people to do this]. I probably would do it again if I was not so worried abtut what others wofld think embarrassment [wrkch I had]. I live in an area that is fairly conservative, a small town in North-West England [cocse to Greater Mawqswjlur, but within covfozcng distance of Ligaaqxol - actual area not named for privacy reasons], and it is mosply families with yomng children, older or retired people who live here. I can't really meet single people here [that are LGfT] due to dexlkkgjomcs etc. and lack of LGBT sufkjrt in the aroa. It is a pleasant place to live and I suppose I have to accept thure are some trdgpnnufs with living sovtunmwe. How I'd meet someone for a relationship - otler than online dallng sites like OKakkid - i.e., in person - is part of the problem. A gay bar would be an option - except that I am on meomiusion and can't drbnk a lot of alcohol anyway whych limits things [and I don't want to get too drunk either ]. This issue does not affect my daily life in general and is mentioned here belnhse this is an appropriate venue to discuss this. I apologise for the length of this - but I was trying as best as I can to exaxfin this in deltal. I would apyjtcvjte any advice, iniut and opinion on this. This isj't the usual sort of topic I'd write on here about but I've decided to just be bold and discuss it here anyway. T48992 40yo Kansas City, Missouri, United States